Change is good!

Posted on September 12, 2012. Filed under: Chats and thoughts | Tags: , , , , |

When it is time to change things in your life, and you are afraid, is that saying to yourself that you are afraid that you are not good enough to win and make that change. So you stay in your comfort zone. Do what everyone else is doing and has done in the past. Only dreaming of what you could do? Not taking that step to a different life.

You must believe in self to make that change! if you want a different life. Be a friend to yourself. Believe in who you are. Make that first step and change.

You may find that you like the change and you are still standing.( I have my fingers toes, and the house is still standing, and I have money for my bills) But now you have the understanding and the knowledge that you can and you trust yourself so much more.

Life is about the challenges, and how you work them and deal with them and what you have learned by doing something a little different or a lot different. You have to help yourself by taking that first step in faith with in yourself.
You are the only one who can do it.

Yes it’s hard and at times scary.

So what if you fail.

Pick your self up and see that you can try again and again.

Your goal is to learn from the doing, and make that change that you want. Step by step, you learn and you will succeeded. By taking that very first step you have changed and have started something different.

My life is like that now, full of chances and changes, and challenges, the three Cs.

Do you know what? I like it! I am learning so much and I feel a growth. and I have always wanted to share. Because I have the need to help someone else if only with one word. That makes me happy, and that too has always been a goal of  mine to be in a constant wave of happiness. I am not seeking happiness for I think it is aways a frame of mind. But it goes up and down and it turns around and sometimes it hides in a corner playing with me.  Smile.

Some times we walk around with a kind of blinder on. But with a word or a thought from someone else it may open a little crack. Now we see something just a little new, and exciting and we want more so you start to look all around you. Sometimes you start to see the same things that you have always seen but,  Hay it looks different now and you can start to see other possibilities that surround it. and without thinking you start to take steps doing more and learning more and sharing these things. So that is where I am now.

I started a fan page on face book, to start or should I say another form of branding  my self and show the world parts of me.  To share the things I like what I find and the others in the world that one may want to take a look at. Also to have a link to my business.

People are great. I have a fascination for them. ( here’s a little secret) I studied cultural anthropology in college for a while. this is another reason I want to travel, to meet to see and to share people.  I don’t like  degrees for my self. I don’t like that as a measurement of how smart or educated one is. or if you can stick to something and be average, on par with everyone else. Because it is not. So I have left them with that degree and I left the other place with the other LOL. I don’t want it. . But that is who I am.  I started to think like that when I saw how others treat you if they think that you don’t have a degree and you are not worthy. oh my what a bad way to be. Humble your self. I say. Be good to others and so be good to yourself too and learn how you want to learn. and share as I do with you.


Sorry no picture for today just verbiage!


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